Welcome!!!! Hey I’m Lola, I’m a 49 year old female divorced, cat mom on her journey of healing, mental health, addictions, boundaries, choices, self love, self worth, codependency and overall search for self. I’m not a writer. I’m one of the millions of people on this planet who are struggling just like me, on their own journey. So why this? Well - I needed a less self destructive outlet then I’ve recently been using as I learn new ways to deal/feel with emotions 🙄 And recording my journey and sharing it with the abyss seems like a totally legit idea 😉 Thanks for reading - Always be kind, even to yourself.